Not that I have already obtained it [this goal of being Christlike] or have already been made perfect, but I actively press on so that I may take hold of that [perfection] for which Christ Jesus took hold of me and made me His own. Philippians 3:12 AMP
Never judge others based on your opinion of what happened. It could just be that they were going through something you were unaware of and their ‘leaving’ was simply them curling up in a corner trying to survive. Rather, take a moment and ask God what He would have you do.
For some reason, it’s easier to believe the worst about someone then to stand in the gap and intercede. But even when you don’t know the cause or reason, taking it to God is the only way to go. We get offended so easily when in reality, it was never about you in the first place. Whatever you do, get off the self pity bus, stop talking to everyone else about it and shift into compassion and love.
Until God reveals it to you (which He may never do), just keep praying for them, keep encouraging others to do the same and keep smiling and pressing forward. Remember that what you do to others is heaped back onto you. Stop the madness and press toward Jesus, it’s the only place you’ll find peace and that is worth it all.
Forgive and Live,